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Signs that a man doesn't want you anymore | Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo



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Signs That A Man Doesn’t Want You

Why do men pull away and lose interest?

There are a lot of possible reasons for this. And it’s safe to say that if you could catch this problem before it took root and drove him apart from you, you could probably save the relationship.

That’s why you need to be able to read a man’s signals. You have to know what his actions – and more importantly, his lack of action – is telling you.

And ultimately, these signs are just that – indicators that you should be paying attention.

They do not demand that you jump into action immediately and start questioning the stability and security of your relationship as it is. Only that you stay aware and watch what’s going on. When you see a pattern, thoughtfully take steps to get MORE aware.

So while I will say that these could be interpreted as him “not wanting you” – the reality is that if you see these signs you can only know that he is at risk in your relationship. Sometimes these signs are just an indicator that he’s gotten lazy in the relationship and it’s time you held him accountable for more.

The real risk I see in relationships day in and day out is that many women simply don’t have the courage to confront men in a healthy, heartfelt way to make him accountable for his part of the relationship.

She suffers in the relationship, allowing him to just exist without ever really investing his own emotions in it. And then she is heartbroken when he walks away from something he was never that involved to begin with.

As the saying goes, “his heart wasn’t in it.”

You have to be different and be accountable as well.

Choosing to do nothing or wait is a choice, just like any other.

And if you don’t choose to take action, you’re living your relationship by default. Which is to say that you’re taking your hands off the wheel and hoping you’ll just get to your destination… somehow.

Let me assure you that this isn’t a “leave it to destiny” approach, nor is it a wise one.

And if you choose this method for your relationships, you will likely find yourself traveling through a great many relationships, all of them ending in a similar way.

Now, let’s pick up the happier side of this subject as I delve into the 7 signs that a man doesn’t want you anymore.

Sign #1: He’s closed off, shut down, and near impenetrable….

There’s a reason you panic when your man goes quiet, and that’s because it’s one of the most telling signs that he’s pulling away from you. The part that makes this confusing is that he can occasionally go quiet even when he IS still in the relationship, possibly just working something out on his own in his head.

So it can be a bit of a fine line to walk when you see this in his behavior.

The best thing you can do is to find intelligent and sincere ways to inquire about what’s going on inside.

Let me start by telling you that the worst thing you can do is to lose your cool and start interrogating him.

“What are you thinking?”
“What’s going on? Why won’t you talk to me?”
“What’s wrong? What did I do wrong? Tell me!”
Yeah, as a guy, I’m already wincing.

“Labeling his state is never good – even if it’s true.” – Carlos Cavallo

So just go easy on the “make me feel better!” dialogue.

Phrase your request in the form of a genuine, heart-centered desire to help HIM, instead of demanding that he ease your frightened emotions.

Sign #2: He’s turned into a 64 oz can of ANNOYED….

When everything you do annoys him and irritates him…

Even the most innocent things you say make him bristle and snap…

You’ve probably got a situation where he’s second-guessing the relationship. Sometimes a man will do this for the same reasons a woman will – to push the other person back and get some perspective – or to prepare for a breakup.

This is usually a symptom of a woman who has …

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Signs That A Man Doesn’t Want You Anymore


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